My Brother Is Dating My Bestfriend

Dear Insider,

I don’t know how to feel about my bestfriend dating my brother. I’ve been bestfriends with this girl for like, forever! Now, she’s dating my brother who is 3 years older than us. I don’t know how to feel about it. – Please can you help me?



Hey Jess!

Believe it or not, this is more common than you think! – I remember growing up I had a crush on my friends brother and actually kissed him! (Thinking back, its cringey! YUCK!) – At the time when this happened, I never thought of how my friend must have felt. Perhaps with your friend all loved up, she hasn’t realised how weird it must be for you. What I suggest is that you speak to your bestfriend and explain that it might take you a while to register and be comfortable that they are together.

Some would say it’s crossing a boundary, however I don’t think you can control who you fall for.

BUT first and foremost, you need to sit down with each of them and tell them how you’re feeling. You never know, your bestfriend may become your sister-in-law! – I don’t know about you but I would love my bestie to become my ACTUAL sister in law! How amazing would that be?!

Much Love, 

The Insider x 

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